The hidden psychological cost of being a woman in leadership

While women’s representation in leadership has increased, research shows many continue to face disproportionate psychological stress, burnout, and systemic bias

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The rise of women into leadership has been widely celebrated as proof that workplaces are evolving. Boardrooms, executive teams, and policy tables are more gender-diverse today than they were a generation ago.

This progress matters. It signals shifting aspirations, expanding opportunity, and the dismantling of long-standing barriers. But representation alone is not reform.

As a psychologist working closely with women in high-pressure corporate environments, I see a quieter reality behind these gains: leadership continues to demand a disproportionate psychological cost from women. The issue is not capability. Women leaders are highly qualified, resilient, and driven. The issue is that many of the systems they lead within were never designed with their realities in mind.

Progress worth recognising

There has been meaningful advancement. Organisations today speak the language of inclusion. Leadership pipelines for women are expanding. Conversations around mental health, once taboo in professional spaces, are now entering boardroom agendas. Mentorship networks, women’s leadership initiatives, and diversity mandates have begun reshaping corporate culture.

Research also shows that when women lead, teams often benefit from collaborative decision-making, stronger interpersonal climates, and higher employee engagement. In other words, the case for women’s leadership is no longer ideological—it is evidence-based. And yet, progress has plateaued in one crucial dimension: sustainability.

The gap between opportunity and experience

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Despite gains in representation, the lived experience of many women leaders remains defined by pressure that extends beyond performance expectations.

Leadership norms are still unconsciously modeled on masculine-coded ideas of authority. Women are often evaluated through conflicting standards: be assertive but not intimidating, confident but not dominant, empathetic but not emotional.

Navigating these unwritten rules requires constant self-monitoring—what psychologists describe as identity labor. Over time, this invisible effort drains cognitive and emotional energy.

Add to this the structural realities women disproportionately carry outside the workplace—caregiving responsibilities, social expectations, and the pressure to 'do it all'—and leadership becomes not only demanding, but psychologically taxing.

When stress and burnout follow, organisations often interpret them as individual resilience gaps. But evidence from organisational psychology suggests otherwise: well-being is determined less by personal toughness and more by the balance between workplace demands and available resources. When demands consistently outweigh support, exhaustion is not surprising—it is predictable. This is why burnout among women leaders should be read as a systems signal, not a personal shortcoming.

What the research makes clear

Studies across sectors—from health care and academia to corporate environments—show that women leaders encounter systemic barriers such as bias in evaluations, microaggressions, unequal access to opportunities, and heightened scrutiny of behavior.

Women from marginalised backgrounds experience these pressures even more intensely due to intersecting stereotypes and isolation in leadership spaces. Even in industries where women’s participation has increased significantly, leadership visibility and authority often remain uneven. Representation, it turns out, does not automatically translate into equity or well-being.

The framework for real change

Addressing this gap requires more than awareness. It requires alignment around three pivotal pillars—Acceptance, Action, and Advocacy.

Acceptance means acknowledging that women leaders face distinct, research-documented mental health pressures shaped by structural realities, not personal weakness.

 Action requires organisations to redesign cultures—embedding psychological safety, equitable systems, flexible pathways, and leadership models that support well-being alongside performance.

 Advocacy ensures responsibility extends beyond individual companies to policy, institutions, and social norms so that progress becomes systemic rather than symbolic.

These pillars are powerful precisely because they operate together. Recognition without reform changes little. Reform without cultural backing rarely lasts. Cultural change without structural reinforcement remains superficial.

The role of support systems

One of the strongest protective factors for women leaders is support. Mentorship, peer alliances, and multigenerational networks consistently show measurable benefits—reducing stress, strengthening confidence, and improving retention. Such ecosystems provide perspective, validation, and strategy, countering the isolation that leadership can bring.

Forward-looking organisations understand that these are not 'soft' initiatives. They are strategic investments in leadership longevity and effectiveness.

If corporations want women leaders to thrive—not merely endure—they must shift from performative inclusion to structural transformation. That means:

  • redefining success to prioritise sustainability, not overextension
  • training managers in psychologically healthy leadership practices
  • measuring well-being alongside financial performance
  • providing confidential, tailored mental-health resources
  • removing systemic friction points that disproportionately affect women

These steps are not concessions. They are competitive advantages. Organisations led by mentally healthy leaders are more innovative, stable, and future-ready.

Beyond survival to redefinition

For generations, women have been praised for strength, service, and sacrifice. But leadership should not require sacrifice as its entry fee. The true measure of progress is not how many women reach leadership—it is how many can remain there while thriving.

Women leaders do not need to be fixed. Systems do. When structures evolve to support women’s mental health, strength becomes sustainable, service becomes valued, and support becomes standard. And when that shift happens, women will not simply adapt to leadership as it exists—they will transform what leadership can be.

(Authored by Nehal Sequeira, Psychologist, Director Strategic Partnerships- Mpower)

The opinions expressed in this article are those of the author and do not purport to reflect the opinions or views of THE WEEK.